About Kristen Fong, MFT

I’m here to guide you in healing from a narcissistic parent or toxic relationship. Together, we’ll find strategies and tools to establish a healthy and balanced marriage or relationship. This journey will empower you to heal and discover your inner strength, allowing you to shape a genuinely happy, meaningful, and authentic life.

“Some relationships are like broken glass. It’s better to leave them alone than hurt yourself trying to put them back together.”

I Understand…

I know what it’s like to have a narcissistic parent, have narcissistic friends and, at times, be unhappy in your relationship.

You have been a victim of emotional trauma, which is devastating to your ability to form healthy future relationships.

My mother abandoned me and my siblings at age 12. I was part of a Narcissistic Family System, where you are struggling in your (childhood) alone, experiencing criticism, neglect, manipulation and controlling behavior believing it’s normal, when others in your life experience your parent(s) as charming and kind.

It is truly “crazy-making.” Amazingly, all of these experiences and resulting feelings can be processed through and changed.

My Experience

The narcissistic family & parental manipulation is unique and insidious. I believe insidious is a perfect word to describe narcissistic treatment by someone you thought loved you. It means a gradual, subtle, secretly dangerous, corrupting or intending to trap. Dangerous manipulation. I have experienced first-hand a narcissistic parent, which oftentimes leads you to creating a narcissistic love relationship & friendships. I have experienced both and they are difficult to recognize & heal from without professional help. I have the experience, my professional education and specialized training in narcissistic relationship recovery.

I have been a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Marin County/California for over 20 years.


  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
    (License CA MFT36228)
  • MA in Counseling Psychology from USF
  • BA in Industrial/Organizational Psychology from SFSU
  • Level I & II trainings in Recovery from Narcissistic Parents with Dr Karyl McBride
  • Over 20 years experience in private practice

Areas of Expertise

Narcissistic Abusive Relationship

Help for people who have been love-bombed, gaslighted (your reality questioned), criticized and your boundaries ignored which may result in anxiety, depression or low sense of self.

Adult Child of Narcissistic Parent

Help for growing up with a self-absorbed parent with a lack of empathy, isolation, blame, lack of understanding, passive-aggressiveness, lack of protection and suggested feelings of being unlovable.

Marriage & Couples Therapy

Help for couples/relationships struggling with communication, getting individual needs met, being heard and flushing out individual differences that need understanding and may be causing harm to the relationship.

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Take the First Step

I can help you find an effective way to not only identify & validate your feelings but to show you a clear path to healing and happiness.